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LoginThe future of our relationship depends entirely on his answer. Some people may see no harm in a man who dabbled for a couple of years in Final Fantasy , orders Thai food at least once a week on Deliveroo, and has a penchant for Taoism. As an East Asian woman, these are red alert flags for me: abort mission. Society has taught us, especially first-generation immigrants, that validation comes with being invited to sit next to white people — even though none of us will ever actually make it to the table. Dating as a woman of colour is stressful under any circumstances. Add white men into the equation, and I can feel my anxiety going through the roof.
Am I a 'race traitor' for dating white people? As someone who's slept with and dated many white men, and someone currently in a relationship with a white man, the idea of the "race traitor" is something I'm particularly attuned to. Even though it shouldn't matter, my first crush was on a Filipino boy, my first kiss was with a Vietnamese boy and I've dated and slept with men of varying ethnicities. For what it's worth, non-white boys have broken up with me as many times as I have broken up with them, and I've been on dates with more non-white women than white women. But that's the point — it shouldn't matter. I don't remember what I tweeted to prompt this response, but a woman who has never met me in person and who knows nothing about me once sent me a tweet at in the morning:. I'd seen prominent Asian American women be viciously attacked online for having white husbands or boyfriends, but I was just a normal person on the other side of the world.
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When you stop looking for whiteness in yourself, you stop looking for it in your partners, writes Naomii Seah. I decided to stop dating white men long before I broke up with my last partner of that persuasion. It was the mid-autumn festival of October My partner was beside me, his lanky arms draped over my bed frame as he watched me peel the cakes from their festive red packaging.
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