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Short for Involuntary Celibate, it was popularised by men who appropriated the label for themselves. The Incel community is overwhelmingly male and growing and to be an Incel technically at least is to have not had sex for six months or more. As so the word has gradually crept into the vocabulary of every internet troll — partly I suspect because we still judge people by how much sex they have, or not in this case. Incels are therefore an easy target. For women it has begun to function as a putdown that ruthlessly dismisses unworthy suitors while simultaneously expelling them from the community of the good as misogynistic and creepy. In the past decade there has been a three-fold increase in the number of men who have not had sex in the past year. There is invariably some truth to this. The most notorious Incels, who have gone on murderous rampages, have indeed been narcissistic and entitled men.

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After my marriage ended I felt too raw to consider jumping into online dating. At first I said no when friends offered to set me up, but when I found myself feeling lost on my child-free evenings, I started saying yes. By accepting a blind date I had outsourced the hunting — but was essentially admitting to having zero hunting game of my own. Why not turn it over to someone else? She was vague about what made him ideal, but I agreed to give it a chance. She put us in touch and we met for brunch on Robertson.

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Do we need a dating app for smart, independent, successful, beautiful, partly public women who have everything in life but a man by their side? If I were to do that — it would probably need a male co-founder, with a male network. Because I would have more than enough great women. And what solutions would there be? First of all, Praetorius defines — because of the many inquiries — what constitutes a loser man:. And Praetorius is certainly right that these men exist.

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Online Dating Sheds Its Stigma as Losers.com

Today we peek into the diaries of a man and a woman, both of whom are looking for love. She was 36 and had a job. I thought she was pretty level-headed. I fell for her quickly, too quickly. I sent her a copy of your column on why women stay with bad boys.

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