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LoginMumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody. Situation - married for 20 plus years, children of school age, home owners. Havent shared a bedroom for years. One half of the relationship checked out a few months ago. Divorce filed, house going on the market in Jan. Obviously not at or near the house.
But the reality is that they often come together. Divorce is a life change, and as you go through the process you are navigating towards a new chapter of your life — a new you. And dating may well be part of that journey of self-discovery. The best start is a good ending. If you can manage divorce well you are far more likely to start a new relationship well. Because if you can rationalise the relationship you had, what your drew from it in terms of positives and what you can happily leave behind, you will have worked out what you want for the future. You can then make engaged and conscious choices about what you are looking for in life, whether you want to date, yet or at all, who you want to date and why.
Some begin immediately generally these are men , while others can take several years. Coming out of a long relationship is traumatic, no matter how amicably it ends. It takes time for you to come to terms with that. Many who return to dating quickly do so purely because being on their own scares them. Have your life in order, not a mess.
One positive aspect for some parties going through a divorce is the fact it results in the ability to take those first exciting steps towards moving on and starting afresh. Inevitably, this includes the opportunity to date and, potentially, find a new partner. Legally, you can date during the divorce proceedings, however, exist a number of legal and practical considerations to bear in mind.
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6/28/2024
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