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LoginI get it. You want kids. You can feel your eggs dwindling and your ovaries ache. Over time you see yet another new baby announcement on Facebook. You have a nagging feeling that each period could be your last and you want to settle down. The trouble is, single men in their 30s who have never been married or had children are hard to come by.
Dating seemed so much easier when we were younger. You liked someone, and if they liked you back, the two of you decided to date. There wasn't much pre-screening or compatibility testing. Here's what you need to know about dating in your 30s, according to licensed counselor Shanta Jackson, M. Some aspects of dating in your 30s make the process harder—such as a shrinking candidate pool. You can no longer meet potential partners at school and probably aren't attending parties and social gatherings as often.
Dating, Plato once said, is like enlisting in a gangbang of rejection, lizard-tongue make-outs, and 2 am doom-swiping. I spent the first half of my 30s in a long-term relationship. Having now been single for over a year, a friend recently asked me the seemingly innocuous question: So, what are you looking for? Obviously, looking for love at any age has its issues.
The messaging about being single is conflicting. It is simultaneously cast as consistently fun and ultimately tragic; essential for fulfilment but only truly acceptable in the past tense. A lot of my friends are in relationships, so when it gets to the weekend and I'm asking what everyone is doing, suddenly every man and his dog is off to Center Parcs. You can't help but think, what am I doing? I worry for the men who don't have people around them that they can talk to about feeling alone.
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