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'In the over-50s dating pool, I thought I found someone special. I was wrong.'

Hilary Harper thought she'd never find new romance in her 50s. Here's how she proved herself wrong. Last time I was single, the Queen Mother had just died, Avril Lavigne's song Complicated was a massive hit, and most people still relied on chance, pheromones and perhaps beer goggles to find the love of their lives. A lot has changed since then. Monarchs have come and gone, pop music continues to morph, and now the bulk of us find love and sex and everything in between on dating apps. I found this hugely confronting when my relationship of nearly two decades ended a few years ago. For a while, I couldn't even contemplate going online to look for someone to connect with. How would that even work? It's such a flat, bloodless parade of images, a kind of catalogue of humans — how would I work out if I liked someone? I pined for the old way of doing things, where you met at a pub, or a friend's share house, and struck up a conversation.

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When I found myself separated at 50, it was huge adjusting to single life again. The lessons learned over the next few months of online dating after 50 were eye-opening not just for me, but for quite a few of my other single friends. There were quite a few friends who had to move forward on the wrong side of And then there were those who were just curious about how I was dealing with dating in the age of Tinder and ghosting and micro-cheating.

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Dating after 50 might be scary, but experts Tanya Koens and Kerri Sackville say it can be fabulous, too. Dating — like any pursuit that carries a risk of rejection, boredom or weirdness — can be angst-inducing. Throw into the mix being single for the first time in decades, being an older person or having less body confidence than you once had, and it can get a lot harder. But love, sex or intimacy isn't off the cards for anyone who wants it. These experts share their advice about navigating apps, first dates, staying safe and avoiding bad matches when you're dating later in life.

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Looking for your ‘appily ever after? These are the best dating apps and sites for over 50s

Image: Getty. It was the first site to introduce an algorithm to dating, and within its first 10 years, more than 33 million people used the platform. The dating app has built a strong reputation with singles over 50, boasting that every 14 minutes someone on eHarmony finds love.

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