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LoginIf you want to make more meaningful connections on dating apps, it's time to level up your effort and move past the boring, "Hey, how are you? Asking smart questions right off the bat can help you determine if someone you meet on a dating app is worth pursuing and could be an IRL match. To make sure your conversation actually goes somewhere, it's crucial that your first message has substance and makes an impact. Here are seven ways to start a conversion on a dating app, according to relationship experts. Research found that using phrases like "you mention" or "I noticed that", which showed you've looked at a person's profile, resulted in higher response rates on the dating app OkCupid. And since people tend to enjoy being noticed, chances are this'll also work for whatever dating app you're on. Therefore, use the content that your potential date has shared — like a photo or a bio — as a springboard into a conversation, says Marisa T.
Last Updated: July 5, Fact Checked. Lisa Shield is a love and relationship expert based in Los Angeles. She has a Master's degree in Spiritual Psychology and is a certified life and relationship coach with over 17 years of experience. This article has been fact-checked, ensuring the accuracy of any cited facts and confirming the authority of its sources. This article has been viewed 57, times.
Last week, I sent over 30 messages to different people, and they were all ignored! Where am I going wrong? There were also guys who contacted me from hundreds of miles away, despite me specifying in my profile that I was only interested in meeting people close to home. And those who messaged to make angry theological objections to some minor point on my profile.
In his bio, he mentioned something about a frozen yogurt chain that I happened to frequent. After we matched, I dashed off a quick message asking what his go-to order was. It was, perhaps, an overly sassy reply to diverging fro-yo preferences, but he found it charming and the conversation unfolded from there. We went on our first date soon after and have now been together for almost a decade.
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